Lying to your dawta and your dawta self does NOT make you look good. Actually, it sets your dawta up for failure. It ensures that she becomes you. How do you think you ended up going through the situations you encountered? No one guided you and was honest. You were fed lies and deception as the truth and it failed you. Now why would you EVER want that for your daughter?
Tell the truth! Tell her about that man you knew you shouldn't have fucked, tell her about the man who raped you, tell her about the man who blackened your eyes. Tell her about the man who robbed you in the night and abandoned you and her. You are NOT a failure! Your choices, disappointments and investments may not have panned out how you wanted, but it is NOT that which makes you a failure to her. You become a failure when you, fail, to disclose to her the pitfalls and traps and the setups. It is your JOB as her MOTHER to protect her and to look out for her best interest. We have to stop telling our dawtas "don't do" without the why and how following that sentiment.
DO NOT LIE TO HER about the "goodness" of men when you HAVE LIVED THE HORRORS! It is irresponsible to set our Dawtas up believing the hype that there are "plenty" of good brothers out there, when you KNOW by trial and error that MOST of them (talkin 95% now) are jacked up, woman hating, abusive, manipulative, gaming scam artists who will do and say ANYTHING to get at some pussy.
Deluding yourselves is COSTING you and the wage is being passed onto your Dawta. Doesn't she deserve a debt free start? Your emotional debt must be paid... you must tell your story and speak your truth. Tell her about the joys and strengths, even the good men you did wrong or let go of, the reason you choose this way instead of that. She deserves to know... You deserve to tell your story.
Your daughter is your COPY. A dawta is a copy of her mother... when you ROB your dawta of what she deserves... when you withhold from her what was withheld from you, you ensure her and your doom in repetition. Your birthing of a Dawta is the Re-creation of GOD herself! A sun/son is NOT a copy.. he is a mutation of your copy work. Your dawta is the closest replica you got. It is the rebirthing of yourself.
Mutation: a permanent change in the DNA sequence of a gene
Whatever you didn't get to enjoy, whatever horror befell you in your life CONSIDER THAT DEBT PAID through your own sacrifice and do not pass it onto your dawta. Realize that passing that debt on is the crucifixion of your SELF! You have DOOMED your SELF to the same hell you were birthed into with this action. Don't you deserve better? Don't you want better for your future generations?
Give your Dawta GIFTS of love and joy. DO NOT give her your debts... pay them. Consider yourself the sacrifice for HER betterment and for the BETTERMENT of your future iterations of self. Do whatever you must to ensure HER freedom and ability to live the best life and a life for her Highest Good. Giving her the best means that your future selves have the best as she is the one who will carry on your bloodline. We can change the world ONE womb ONE wombyn at a time. Start in you!
Lets not set our Dawta's up for the fall.
Inspired by Divine Recollection of my Wombynfolk. Listening to the Mothers of yore.
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